A Winner makes commitments; A Loser makes promises.
A Winner never quits; Loser always quits. Winners have dreams; Loser have schemes. Winners say,"I must do something"; Losers say,"Something must be done." Winners are a part of the team; Losers are apart from the team. Winners see the gain; Losers see the pain. Winners see possibilities; Losers see problems. Winners hardly get mad; Losers always upset. Winners never whine; Losers always bitching. Winners are not pretender; Losers wannabe know it all. Winners believe in win/win; Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose. Winners see the potential; Losers see the past. Winners are like a thermostat; Losers are like thermometers.
Winners choose what they say; Losers say what they choose. Winners use hard arguments but soft words; Losers use soft arguments but hard words. The Winner says, "I will do it"; The Loser says, "Let me see what I can do"; The Winner is always part of the answer; The Loser is always part of the problem. The Winner is always has a plan; The Loser always has an excuse. The Winner says,"Let me do it for you; The Loser says;" That is not my job." The Winner sees an answer for every problem; The Loser sees a problem for every answer. The Winner says," It may be difficult but it is possible"; The Loser says,"It may be possible but it is too difficult." When a Winner makes a mistake, he says,"I was wrong"; When a Loser makes a mistake, he says," It wasn't my fault." Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things; Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values. Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you would, not want them to do to you"; Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you." Winners make it happen; Losers let it happen.